Monday, June 28th, 2010

You Can’t Ride the Fence

If any athlete was known for focus, it was Michael Jordan. In Jordan’s book, Driven from Within, Fred Whitfield, president and chief operating officer of the NBA’s Charlotte Bobcats basketball team, tells a fascinating story about something Jordan did while getting ready to go out one evening. When Jordan asked if he could borrow a jacket from Whitfield, he found Whitfield’s closet was filled with both Nike and Puma products. The Nike outfits had been given to Whitfield because of his relationship with Jordan, who had a lucrative contract with the company.

Whitfield recalls that Jordan walked into the living room, laid all the Puma gear on the floor, and went into the kitchen to grab a butcher knife. When Jordan returned to the living room, he proceeded to cut all the Puma clothes to shreds. He then picked up the scraps and carried everything to the dumpster. Once Jordan came back inside, he turned to Fred and said, “Don’t ever let me see you in anything other than Nike. You can’t ride the fence!”

Wow! Some of you are probably thinking that Michael Jordan lost his mind. I mean, what does it really matter if you have Nike plus something else? Actually, it matters a lot if you are committed to excellence.

Jordan won six basketball championships for the Chicago Bulls because he didn’t ride the fence. Phil Jackson won eleven championships for the Bulls and Lakers because he didn’t ride the fence. It is true of Kobe Bryant with his five rings as well. All of them were committed to doing everything possible so they could help their team be the best in the world.

You can’t ride the fence about your marriage. It’s not a marriage (at least not a healthy one) if you are not committed to that one special person. You can’t ride the fence about your children, about your work, about your faith, nor about your life – not if you want to make it into something worthwhile.

Fence-riders think they are open to all sorts of possibilities, but the truth of it is, they are open to little except their own narrow perspective. Deciding not to decide is a decision. In all of history, no one became great by sitting on the fence – even Humpty Dumpty had a “great fall.”

One characteristic of Servant Leader is that they never “ride the fence.” They believe so strongly that the only style that influences others to greater productivity while maintaining human dignity is Servant Leadership. What makes people committed to the principles of Servant Leadership?

1. They have experienced the other styles of leadership

Most organizations, profit or non-profit, often maintain an active strategy to generate revenues without serious regard to the welfare of their staff. I know because I have been in the board of directors’ gatherings, the executive offices, and the conference rooms where bonuses are discussed, stock options are mentioned, and quarterly earnings manipulated without regard to the impact on the people that made it happen.

2. They have seen the beneficial results of Servant Leadership.

Servant Leadership, by its very nature, is designed to be transformational. That is, the one serving and the one served become better by the experience. Most people are simply satisfied with what attorneys call, “quid pro quo.” In layman’s terms, it simply means “you scratch my back, I will scratch yours.” In the short term, that kind of thinking works. But eventually, someone has a greater “itch” than you do and then we feel like we are being taken advantage of or the circumstances seem unfair. The organizations that are committed to servant leadership have not only seen better productivity but also happier employees. No self-serving promotional advertising here, it is just the facts! But you can’t say, “I will try it for awhile,” or “I’ll wait until someone starts it first.” It starts with you and it starts today. Only fence-sitters wait, and wait, and wait.

3. They know that changing themselves to Servant Leaders will always have an impact on changing others.

The first person I influence is me. The first I try to change is me. My standards for excellence need to be higher for myself that those I have set for others. It is called credibility. The fence sitter usually wants to change the world just like Lucy wanted to change the world in the Peanuts comic strip. When an overwhelmed Charlie Brown asks where she would start, her response is, “I would start with you, Charlie Brown. I would start with you.” Lucy just didn’t get it. Leading myself is the primary mission. Every credible survey I have seen about the most important trait for a leader always has this trait first or second. More than anything else, people want leaders whose beliefs and actions line up. Leading by example, modeling the IQ with the I Do is the way of the servant leader because they know it will always have a positive impact on their team.

Michael Jordan was a great basketball player, perhaps even the greatest. Even some of the NBA players, as a statement of respect, wear his shoes, carry his number, or wear his Nike clothes. Jordan never sat on the fence. So, my friends, don’t sit on the fence of life. You have to be fully in to be fully released to do what you were designed to do!

Dr. Tony Baron, Teaching Pastor

Monday, June 28th, 2010

Handling Criticism Jesus Style – Luke 9:51-62

After all these years criticism still hurts. I have prayed for thicker skin. Instead my skin is simply stretching to fit my body more comfortably. I suspect it is because I am wearing my skin instead of living in Christ’s skin. My experience tells me many people struggle with criticism. Some people believe providing a critical review is a spiritual gift and often call it, “telling the truth” or “constructive criticism.” If our desire is to be in union with God in the midst of a critical world, it might be beneficial for us to see how Our Lord Jesus handled criticism as He was going about the Father’s business.

I. The World of Criticism

a. Everybody does it (distortion)

b. Everybody receives it (destructive)

c. Everybody responds to it. (differently)

“Criticism is something we can avoid easily by saying nothing, doing nothing, and being nothing.” – Aristotle, 384-322 BC

II. The Word about Handling Criticism (Luke 9:51-62)

A. The Criticism Displayed at Jesus (Who is in authority?)

1. Critical of His Destination, vv. 51-56 (Where?)

2. Critical of His Standards, vv. 57-58 (How?)

3. Critical of His Timing, vv. 59-60 (When?)

4. Critical of His Priorities, vv. 61-62 (What?)

B. The Critical Differences between Jesus and His Disciples

1. The Disciples’ Response to Criticism: Let them burn!

2. The Jesus’ Response to Criticism: He moved on to His God-given task!

III. The Phrases that will Change Your Life about Criticism (Application)

A. Follow Jesus regardless of the criticism, v. 59
B. Proclaim the Kingdom of God to those who want to live regardless of the criticism, v. 60

C. Don’t look back regardless of the criticism, v. 62

Table Talk: Whether you are alone or with your family, ask the following questions: What part of the quote really speaks to you today? Why? Can you think of biblical examples that are consistent with these quotes? Is there something the Holy Spirit is teaching you about criticism or being critical?

*Monday and Tuesday: Read this quote by Theodore Roosevelt, 26th President of the United States and discuss: “It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood, who strives valiantly; who errs and comes short again and again; because there is not effort without error and shortcomings; but who does actually strive to do the deed; who knows the great enthusiasm, the great devotion, who spends himself in a worthy cause, who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement and who at the worst, if he fails, at least he fails while daring greatly. So that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who know neither victory nor defeat.”

*Wednesday and Thursday: Read this quote by the Apostle Paul in I Corinthians 9:19-23 in the Message Bible and discuss: “Even though I am free of the demands and expectations of everyone, I have voluntarily become a servant to any and all in order to reach a wide range of people: religious, nonreligious, meticulous moralists, loose-living immoralists, the defeated, the demoralized – whoever. I didn’t take on their way of life. I kept my bearings in Christ – but I entered their world and tried to experience things from their point of view. I’ve become just about every sort of servant there is in my attempts to lead those I meet into a God-saved life. I did all this because of the Message. I didn’t just want to talk about it; I wanted to be in on it!

*Friday and Saturday: Discuss this quote by William Arthur Ward, pastor and author; “Flatter me, and I may not believe you. Criticize me, and I may not like you. Ignore me, and I may not forgive you. Encourage me, and I will not forget you. Love me and I may be forced to love you.”

June 27, 2010. The Way Christian Fellowship, Dr. Tony Baron, Teaching Pastor. Fr. Tony can be reached via email at tbaron@dtwc.com and Deacon Kirsten Gardner can be reached via email at mgardner600@roadrunner.com.

Thursday, June 24th, 2010

A Word to Women a Week before Father’s Day

A Word to Women a Week before Father’s Day
Luke 7:33-8:3; I Kings 21:1-21

I. Introductory Thoughts on the Passage

A. The Gaze and Actions of the Lord Never Changes

B. The State of Our Soul Determines How the Lord Appears to Us

i. The Complaining Public, Luke 7:33-35

ii. The Condemning Pharisee, Luke 7:36-50

iii. The Changed People, Luke 8:1-3

II. A Sinful Woman Forgiven: Who is this, who even forgives sin? (Luke 7:36-8:3) – Look at the Depth of Her Desire to be in Union with God

A. The First Stage: The Purgative Way (Awareness and Conversion of Her Condition)
i. Aware of Her Carelessness about Sin
ii. Aware of Her Incapacity to Save Herself
iii. Aware of God’s Presence in Jesus and His Grace Alone

B. The Second Stage: The Illuminative Way (Love and Devotion of Her Christ)
i. Christ Alone is the Suspension bridge over Troubled Waters
ii. Christ Alone is the Source of Good News of the Kingdom
iii. Christ Alone is the Stability within Our Earthly Condition

C. The Third Stage: The Unitive Stage (Deep, habitual Union with God)
i. Deep joy
ii. Profound Humility
iii. Sharing in the Suffering of Christ
iv. Spiritual Marriage

III. A Word to Women a Week before Father’s Day (Practical Application)
A. Do not underestimate your influence on others (husbands, children, friends, and other women)
B. Do not fear the steps necessary for genuine intimacy with God (father hurts, family concerns, fear of going for it will reduce your relationship with your spouse, etc)
C. Do have a vision of what God can do in your lives when you know and love as you are known and loved by the Triune God (Married to God as His bride)

The Way Christian Fellowship, Fr. Tony Baron, teaching pastor. www.findtheway.org.

Thursday, June 24th, 2010

Living in a Land of Broken Hearts

Living in a Land of Broken Hearts
Luke 7:11-17

3 million children/USA abused each year. Women sexually assaulted every 2 minutes; 354,000 yearly. 1 million children exploited by global commercial slavery. 27 million adult slaves today worldwide. 1.02 billion people hungry/ 1/6th of humanity undernourished. 1.1 million couples in USA divorced last year. 56 million people die yearly. 17,000 homicides in USA. 45,000 traffic accidents die. 2.4 million Americans die yearly.

Bob Dylan “Everything is Broken.” Broken lines, broken strings, broken threads, broken springs, broken idols, broken heads, people sleeping in broken beds. Ain’t no use jiving, ain’t no use jokin – everything is broken. Broken bottles, broken plates, broken switches, broken gates, broken dishes, broken parts, streets are filled with broken hearts, broken words never meant to be spoken – everything is broken.

I. Understanding the Land of Broken Hearts (Introduction)

A. It is Universal: Everyone experiences it

B. It is Defining: Everyone is forever changed by it

C. It is Fearful: Everyone speculates about it

II. What does God want you to know when your heart is broken? (Luke 7:11-17)
Luke the doctor describes the scene. Nain: 25 miles, late afternoon, day journey from Capernaum, only a 10 minute walk to Shunem, where Elisha, raised another mother’s son (2 Kings 4). An open coffin, preceded by a pathetic figure of a woman, stood directly in Jesus’ path. Death of an only child, pale young corpse, Alone in a world without provider or protector.

A. He is there when you think He is not (Compassionate equally to all in this world)
To the ancient world, particularly the Greek world, the noblest way of living was Stoicism. The Stoics believed that the primary characteristic of God was apathy, incapability of feeling. If someone can make someone show emotion, it means they can influence the person. No one can influence God. In this passage, there is no stronger word, than this It refers to what is inside. An emotion with a physical effet.(Matt. 14:14; 15:32; 20:34; Mark 1:41; 8:2; Jn. 11:33 “horse snorting, deeply moved, involuntary gasp).
People said God visited his people.
Lamentations 3:22 “His compassions never fail. They are new every morning. Great is your faithfulness.”

B. He cares when you think He does not (Concerned equally with suffering and sin)

Touching a coffin meant sure pollution according to the ceremonial law of the OT (Num 19:11,16) but Jesus knew the Law required mercy above sacrifice.

C. He wants you to know that His parade of life will overcome any procession of death (Committed equally in providing new life)
The funeral procession would be headed by the band of professional mourners with their flutes and their cymbals, uttering a kind of frenzy shrill cries of grief.

III. How should we live in a land of broken hearts? (Application)

A. Listen Attentively: Everyone has a story!

B. Love Actively: Everyone needs others who care!

C. Pray Always: Everyone needs intercessors!

The Way Christian Fellowship, June 6, 2010. Dr. Tony Baron, teaching pastor. www.findtheway.org. To contact our teaching pastors, you may reach Deacon Kirsten Gardner at mgardner600@roadrunner.com or Fr. Tony at tbaron@dtwc.com.

Thursday, June 24th, 2010

What is Humanity?

What is Humanity?
Psalm 8 et al

I. That Question Demands an Answer for Every Human Being (Choice and Rootedness)

A. Quest for Identity “Who am I?”

B. Quest for Purpose “Why am I here?”

C. Quest for Relationship “What group is like me?”

Being bodies that learn language
thereby becoming wordlings
humans are
the symbol-making, symbol-using, symbol-misusing animal
inventor of the negative
separated from our natural condition
by instruments of our own making
guard by the spirit of hierarchy
acquiring foreknowledge of death
and rotten with perfection
- Kenneth Burke, Coe 332-333 (Life is Drama)

II. King David’s Response to the Question (Psalm 8)

(How can God, whose glory is set above the heavens, whose fingers establish the moon and the stars in their place, be mindful of humanity?) – vv. 1,9 (Frame of Psalm 8)

Ex: Our galaxy alone is spread over a 100,000 light year expanse and estimated to be one among millions in the universe. David’s eyes saw only .001 percent of the 100 billion stars in our Milky Way.

We are confronted with two thoughts: Incomprehensible greatness of our Creator and our own very small and inconsequential stature in the universe.

A. God has dignified humanity by placing the divine image in them, vv.4,5
(We have royal status as God’s vice-regents)

“Of what importance is the human race, that you should notice them? Of what importance is mankind, that you should pay attention to them, and make them a little less than the heavenly beings (God)? You grant mankind honor and majesty; – see Genesis 1:26-30

B. God has appointed us to be accountable for His Creation, vv. 6-8
(We have responsibility as God’s vice-regents)

“you appoint them to rule over your creation, you have placed everything under their authority, including all the sheep and cattle, as well as the wild animals, the birds in the sky, the fish in the sea and everything that moves through the currents of the seas.

III. So How Do We Live Out Our Identity, Purpose, and Relationships?

A. Seek a Higher Vision: Start with Jesus as Your Model, Hebrews 1:1-4; 2:5-9

Long ago God spoke to our ancestors in many and various ways by the prophets, but in these last days he has spoken to us by a Son, whom he appointed heir of all things, through whom he also created the worlds. He is the reflection of God’s glory and the exact imprint of God’s very being, and he sustains all things by his powerful word.-vv.1-3

Christ alone reveals God to us in human flesh. Christ alone is the archetype from which humanity is patterned.

B. Rest and Learn the Heart of God and His ways through Jesus, John 14:8-11; Matthew 11:27-29

“Come to me, all you that are weary and are carrying heavy burdens, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me; for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.

C. Allow the Holy Spirit to Guide You in Your Daily Activities, Romans 5:1-5; John 16:12-15; Proverbs 8

The Way Christian Fellowship, Trinity Sunday, May 30, 2010. Dr. Tony Baron, teaching pastor. If you desire to meet with Fr. Tony (tbaron@dtwc.com) or Dc. Kirsten Gardner (mgardner600@roadrunner.com) about your walk with the Lord or becoming part of this church, please let us know. Check out our website, www.findtheway.org.